9. aphorisms
Earth signs ideal love feels like a garden
Water signs ideal love feels like an ocean
Air signs ideal love feels like heaven
Fire signs ideal love feels like sunshine
The easiest way to make friends is to listen when people are talking - instead of using that as a time to think about what you could say to make you seem appealing.
Giving someone your attention is so attractive.
What if the meaning of the word ‘like’ is not a lesser version of ‘love’ but the present tense of the world ‘love’ You always love people but you only like them for periods of time.
Do you ever wonder if by not getting together we’re doing society a disservice? What if we’re avoiding a connection that could bring change to the world? That would be so sad.
He is not fighting me, he is fighting his own demons.
There are no should haves or would haves, you dealt with everything to the best of your abilities. The right people don’t pull away when you do or say the wrong thing. They stick around because they believe in your goodness.
I showed him love even when he couldn’t afford it.
The opposite of easy, for men, is not difficult - it’s intense. They choose the easy connection vs the one they feel at their core, because they’re too scared of what the deep intense connection will demand of them.
I don’t need your love to know that I’m worthy of your love. Look at all I’ve done for you, of course I’m fucking worthy of your love. Without a doubt in my mind.
It’s your choice to not love me but that has nothing to do with me.
When you like someone because of their truths, you believe they deserve what they are given by the universe.
All you need to do is look at water to know that everything is in motion. Everything is changing. Nothing will ever be the same. Don’t meditate on still water.
You have to constantly believe that there’s so much more to be lived in your life. The universe doesn’t need you to do anything in a specific time frame. It just needs you to stay on the path to living your purpose.
So many stories of heart break, making decisions about love sure is hard for a lot of people.
The purpose of a partner is to have someone that will keep you alive on the journey of life.
I miss accidentally pulling up my coworkers facebooks and having the glass walls reflect it back to them.
Conversations are not transactions of affection. They are the free flow of attention between one or more parties.
Men as self sabatoging kamakzis that love destructive drama like cheating and ghosting but give girls shit for saying their honest feelings.
He won’t let me see him in love because he’s scared It’ll be too hard on me because I’m not in love. And he knows I’ve never been in love. Because he knows his own soul.
My biggest fear is that you won’t share your thoughts with me. And not just your thoughts about me, I want to know every good and bad thing you think of. Your biggest fear is that I’ll never love only you.
My bigness makes you feel small
and that is not something
I have to accommodate for.
I refuse to make myself smaller so that someone else can feel as big as me.
Start saying “I haven’t fallen in love with anyone” instead of “no one’s fallen in love with me” take ownership of your life.
I’m not saying “I think” because I’m “insecure” about my thought, it’s just because I genuinely think the possibility of there being another way to think about it is quite high. It would be the exponential formula for humans.
I hope you remember that when our loved ones are no longer confined to their human bodies, we begin to see their souls around us.
The reasons we have to do things
are the reason we do the thing.
When people preach to you what their idea of love is - they’re showing you their worth.
Everyone I see is part of me.
Everyone realizes their purpose before they die but they don’t all get to live it. If you never realized your purpose that’s why your life flashes before your eyes.